Sometimes you feel sad when people remember things about you. Sometimes you want people to focus on the present, better you, rather than a past you that no longer exists.

(Once, i was reading a ki book, and i stumbled upon this part that goes 'The you years ago is not the same as the you now in both appearance and personality. So what is it that makes the past you and the present you the same person?')

And yet, if people don't remember things about you, they probably don't care enough, which isn't good either.